雙語閱讀：怎么知道一個(gè)人對你有意思呢

　　We have all known the anxiety that comes with trying to work out whether a crush shares our feelings.

        我們都知道，當(dāng)我們愛一個(gè)人的時(shí)候，想知道對方是否也喜歡自己是一個(gè)讓人感到頭痛的事。

　　But the mystery could be at an end, as people who discovered that the object of their affection did feel the same way have revealed the signs that gave it away.

　　但現(xiàn)在所有這些將不再是一個(gè)問題，因?yàn)橄嗷ブ�間顯示一些跡象，可以肯定，我們喜歡的對象也有同樣的感覺。

　　In a new thread on Reddit user new-mustard-lover asked fellow Redditors: ’What are some signs that someone’s into you?’

　　在Reddit上的一串帖子中，那些暗生情愫的情場菜鳥們提問：“怎么看出來對方喜歡你？”

　　It wasn’t long before coupled-up members came forward with their advice on what to look out for in a potential suitor.

　　很快那些得成眷屬的人們就來提出了自己的建議，教人們怎么看出別人是否對自己有意思。

　　Many agreed that body language is hugely important when it comes to working out whether someone likes you.

　　許多人都一致認(rèn)為，想要知道別人是否喜歡你，身體語言很重要。

　　Several users were in agreement that eye contact was important when deciphering someone’s feelings, however, opinion was divided as to what eye contact meant.

　　幾名用戶都認(rèn)為，當(dāng)你想要知道別人是否對你有意思的時(shí)候，眼神交流很重要。但是人們在眼神交流到底意味著什么這個(gè)問題上分歧很大。

　　Some said that if a potential date is looking down or struggling to maintain eye contact then this is a sign they are into you - though it was typically men who said this of women, rather than the other way around.

　　有人說，如果你看的對象不敢看你的眼睛，或者工作很難保持與你的目光接觸，那么說明有愛-但這是一般一個(gè)男人對女人的喜歡，相反則不是。

　　However, others argued that it was keeping constant eye contact and even a stare that means they are interested.

　　但是，其他人還說保持眼神交流不停、甚至直勾勾地盯著對方看也說明他們對你很有意思。

　　One woman said that she looks for ’tunnel vision’ from a man to know that he fancies her.

　　一名女性用戶表示稱，當(dāng)她發(fā)覺有男人“直勾勾地盯著自己”的時(shí)候，她就知道對方喜歡自己。

　　While body language is important, actions from a crush are also equally vital to keep an eye out for.

　　雖然肢體語言很重要，但是意中人的一些舉動(dòng)也同樣值得注意。

　　In an honest account one man said that he tries to show off more around women he thinks are out of his league, and says other men do the same.

　　一名男性用戶誠實(shí)地說，他會(huì)多多地圍著自己喜歡的女人轉(zhuǎn)，還說其他男人也會(huì)這么做。

　　One woman admitted that if she is sending you a Snapchat when drunk, it is usually because she wants to take the relationship further.

　　一名女性用戶也說道，如果女性喝醉了的時(shí)候給了你她的Snapchat賬號(hào)，那一般是因?yàn)樗�想把你們的關(guān)系更近一步。

　　Many agreed that showing enthusiasm for your hobbies and also a willingness to get involved with your interests is a good sign.

　　許多人還同意，對你的愛好表現(xiàn)出熱情、或者愿意參與到你的興趣愛好中來也是一個(gè)好現(xiàn)象。

　　Several were in agreement that if a crush is prepared to laugh at your bad jokes then they are almost certainly into you.

　　幾名用戶還一致同意，如果你的葷段子逗得對方咯咯大笑，那就幾乎可以確定對方喜歡你了。

　　One man said that if they mimic your behaviour it is likely that they have been checking you out - and he even suggests a way to test it out.

　　一名男性用戶指出，如果對方模仿你的行為，那就很可能是因?yàn)樗麄円恢痹陉P(guān)注你——他甚至還提出了一個(gè)方法來驗(yàn)證。

　　Showing an interest in your love life also suggests that they are interested in being involved according to this redditor.

　　據(jù)這名reddit用戶表示稱，如果對方對你的愛情生活表現(xiàn)出興趣，那就說明他們跟你成為這種關(guān)系。