Someone asked "What's your "secret" to a happy life? What makes your days blissful?" on a forum.
有人在論壇上問(wèn)：“你保持生活愉悅的秘訣是什么？是什么讓你的生活美滋滋的？“
I'm not annoying.Think I've got a higher level of life satisfaction than a lot of my friends. There are four things that I can put my finger on that I think I do a little differently than them (and a lot of people). Hope they bring you some joy!
我無(wú)意嘩眾取寵，但我真的覺(jué)得自己的生活滿(mǎn)意度比周?chē)�的許多朋友高。我敢肯定，在四個(gè)實(shí)踐與他們不同的事情，并希望這些不同的做法也給你帶來(lái)快樂(lè)！
 
1. I'm constantly and conscientiously focusing on being grateful for all the amazing and miraculous shit in my life.
我所有的生活感到欣慰的是發(fā)生在美好的事物總是神奇。
My wife is a good human, I work with good people, I'm not sick right now, etc... Looking at the basic, mundane stuff around me and appreciating it really helps me feel like I'm a lucky person.
我的妻子是非常好的，我的同事都不錯(cuò)，現(xiàn)在我有沒(méi)有病�？纯次疑磉叺倪@些司空見(jiàn)慣的事情，讓我感動(dòng)里，我覺(jué)得自己很幸運(yùn)。
 
2. I'm always trying to find compassion for people - *especially* those that are pissing me off in one way or another.
我會(huì)找別人誰(shuí)是悲慘的地方，尤其是那些誰(shuí)惹惱了我。
 
If you don't have compassion, you stop trying to find the truth behind people's actions and usually just chalk up their negative ones to that person being an asshole.
如果你沒(méi)有惻隱之心，你就會(huì)停止深究人們行為背后的含義，只記下可惡之人的討厭之處。
 
3. Tell people you love them, be generous with your friends.
時(shí)常表達(dá)愛(ài)意，慷慨待友人。
 
I don't think people realize until they've lost something or made a truly irrevocable mistake just how much loss hurts, and how much they'd give to just express their love for whatever it was that is now gone.
我認(rèn)為人們經(jīng)常意識(shí)到失去的痛苦，以及他們多么想表達(dá)對(duì)那些在失去了什么或犯了不可挽回的錯(cuò)誤后,才想對(duì)已去的人表達(dá)愛(ài)。
 
4. Always ask yourself if you could be wrong, and really be open to it.
絕不要忘了問(wèn)自己有沒(méi)有做錯(cuò)，并用開(kāi)放的心胸接納真相。
 
Give yourself a break, and don't hold yourself to unreasonable standards on this count: as long as you're looking around your world with an open heart and an open mind, the pure intentions behind anything you're wrong about will shine through.
休息一下，不要用不人道的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)批評(píng)自己，盡可能地看待這個(gè)世界，敞開(kāi)你的心扉，解放你的思想，不要思考你是對(duì)還是錯(cuò)，用你的第一顆心照亮你的身心。


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